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Want to know the secret recipe for getting your baby to sleep through the night? So does every other mom of a little one. But there is no secret formula for baby’s sleeping through the night.
However, there are simple, strategic steps you can take to move in that direction. Getting your baby to sleep all night long requires some simple planning all day long.
Did you know that being tired is one of the biggest enemies of sleep? That’s right; your wee one can actually be too tired to drift off into dreamland.
And it happens more quickly than you might realize. Here are some general guidelines for the amount of awake time your little one should have between sleep times:
So how do you make this happen? You put your child down for a nap before they are too tired and desperately need it. That will help at bedtime as well.
Feeding-sleeping association is pretty common amongst toddlers. They are used to nursing or bottle feeding to sleep, or even a big snack of their favorite foods before being hustled into their beds for nap times.
But that works against you in the wee hours of the night when they wake up and need that same comfort to fall back to sleep, because feeding and sleeping are inseparable partners in their mind.
By feeding your child right after nap time, you help break that connection in their mind and they’ll be able to fall asleep in the night when they wake up between sleep cycles.
However, you do want to feed them well before their evening sleep because a full belly is critical to a longer sleep at night.
You’ve probably noticed that your little one loves a routine. Routines provide a reliable rhythm to their day and offers comfort. Doing the same things in the same order is security.
By creating a predictable rhythm for your baby in the 20-30 minutes before sleep every bedtime lets them know sleep time is coming and helps prepare them for it.
For instance, take a warm bath, get in jammies, read a story, and have a bottle or nurse. Just like that, the same way at the same time each day.
And keep it boring. No extra excitement before bed. If your little one tries to “play” with you by throwing stuffed animals on the floor or running away when you’re about to rock with a book, don’t play back.
Those final 5 minutes before bed should be particularly calming, too.
Our bodies know that we sleep when it’s dark because that’s the natural order of things. So whether it’s nap time or bedtime, keep your baby’s room as dark as possible.
Consider blackout curtains and blinds, but also be aware the nightlights and clocks that glow can also disrupt sleep.
Plus, teaching your baby from the get go that the dark is a great place to rest will help them keep this habit as they get older. Little ones who nap in a dark room will nap better and longer, as well.
Just like your child does best with a predictable routine, your baby will sleep through the night better if he is sleeping in the same place at the same time, too.
Your child should be able to know “sleep happens here,” regardless of nap time or bedtime. Try to avoid sleeping in stroller, car seats, or your arms if you want them to sleep well, longer, and fall asleep better.
Also, they will ideally fall asleep where they’ll stay asleep. That will alleviate any shock from falling asleep in Mama’s arms and waking up in a different place.
A sleep cycle lasts approximately 45 minutes and it’s normal to wake up at the end of each one. For adults, that awake moment is so slight they won’t even remember it in the morning.
But for a baby? Well, it can be hard to fall back to sleep. And if they aren’t used to self-soothing in any way and instead rely on your to rock or feed them to sleep, they’ll cry for you at those times when ideally they could fall back to sleep.
So on the first day you’re working on helping them sleep better, wait one minute before going in to reassure your baby. The second day, wait 2 minutes and the third day wait 3 minutes. In time, he will learn to settle back to sleep on his own.